Again, we know what words mean. We know where choices come from. That has nothing to do with and is frankly a strange deflection from your ongoing confusion about the words you use.
Which is more likely: That you don't know what a word means or that everyone and multiple dictionaries are wrong?
dang, the guy is adamantly denying the definition of a well-known word. That behavior can be shut down without resorting to “both sides-ism”. Don’t use me as the tat to his tit.
It doesn't matter very much if someone is denying the definition of a well-known word on the internet. And it's not interesting. Therefore the thing to do is just let it go. By feeding it, you only keep it alive.