I don't take it for granted that they are optional. I think that taking the position that women have a choice to play the game is a difficult one for me to accept.
This is something that even I agree, Here in India a lot of women are helpless and clearly driven by social pressures. Often under poverty and caste obligations.
But we are not talking about that section of women here. We are talking of girls(in the article) who in very clear conscious have the choice to spent their time, money and resources in a particular way. But don't take the best way out, and take the wrong choice.
This is utmost bad decision making, not a social problem. Otherwise every other social persuasion or thought can become your life problem.
This is something that even I agree, Here in India a lot of women are helpless and clearly driven by social pressures. Often under poverty and caste obligations.
But we are not talking about that section of women here. We are talking of girls(in the article) who in very clear conscious have the choice to spent their time, money and resources in a particular way. But don't take the best way out, and take the wrong choice.
This is utmost bad decision making, not a social problem. Otherwise every other social persuasion or thought can become your life problem.