A few friends of mine are working on a Fediverse hosting coop, starting soon with Mastodon, in case you want to be a friendly beta user: https://enoki.tech/
From what I know they're running it all on Kubernetes and have taken care of solid backups, scalability and they're taking stuff like data protection seriously. Perhaps they'll offer you a free 30 day trial for a single user instance. Can't hurt to ask.
I'm a k8s expert so I wouldn't pay to outsource that part. If I'm going to pay someone else, I don't want to be thinking at that level and more likely join one of the most popular servers with good moderation and policies
A few friends of mine are working on a Fediverse hosting coop, starting soon with Mastodon, in case you want to be a friendly beta user: https://enoki.tech/
From what I know they're running it all on Kubernetes and have taken care of solid backups, scalability and they're taking stuff like data protection seriously. Perhaps they'll offer you a free 30 day trial for a single user instance. Can't hurt to ask.