The point is not "This is fine" vs "This is not", it's that the exact same images are allowed by advertisers, but not allowed from users. It is a blatant, damning example of who the customers are, and who matters, advertisers or users.
If you don't want it, that's reasonable. If you think we should be less strict, you can make that argument too. It's a personal choice, a line each user has to decide for themselves (which is why centralized and centrally-moderated social media can't really work: we all draw different lines, and few of us agree with where Facebook's line is).
Right now though, nobody wins: advertisers are given one set of rules, and users another, so under the current system, most parties lose. Advertisers could be banned if they draw too much heat. Users bristle under the hypocrisy. Facebook comes out ahead though, with that sweet ad revenue
I don’t want to see your hoo-ha on Meta while I’m eating my pancakes.