Why can't you just use versioning in your external-to-the-monorepo APIs and use HEAD within the monorepo? Nothing about combining some projects into a monorepo forces you into dropping everything else we know about software release cycles.
More work than what? More work than sharing HEAD in the monorepo, certainly. But it's definitely not more work than versioning across multiple repos because it's literally the same thing. When you're exporting code from a monorepo you follow all the same patterns you would from a small single library repo.
