You're assuming IO-bound highly-concurrent C++ server don't have other requirements besides those two. Maybe it's IO-bound highly concurrent text processing. Erlang will suck at this despite the two pieces it's excellent at. Go is pretty fast at processing text and google does a lot of text processing.
What exactly does "text processing" mean, by the way? Erlang is very good at processing streams of bytes--you can pattern match on binaries to get new sub-binaries (which are basically equivalent to Go's array slices) to pass around, etc. It just gets awkward when you have to convert those streams into codepoints to do case-insensitive comparisons and such.
But to reply more directly, "IO-bound" means something specific--that the problem will be using a negligible amount of CPU, no matter what constant coefficient of overhead the language adds, and so scaling will never be a problem of "oops it's using too much CPU to do the text processing" but rather "oops the gigabit links are saturated we need to add more boxes."
You answered your own question when you acknowledged the areas Erlang get awkward in. Google supports more than 50 different languages. Doing that requires performant analysis of more than just bytes but of unicode codepoints.
